Stuff

I know my 脾气不是很好 and I have a lot of flaws but surprisingly, I'm not embarrassed at all!
If you want me to talk about myself, I can proudly tell you that
- I LIKE being a bitch
- I make fun of people all the time
- I'm vindictive and WILL get back at you if you ever offend me
- I stand by what I say and it's very hard to get me to apologize if I don't feel that I'm in the wrong
- My attitude is if you acknowledge my presence, I will acknowledge yours.
And a whole lot more.

Personally, I do think my temper is getting worse. When I quarrel, I tend to start screaming (I never used to do that) to the extent that people called me crazy. But seriously, 我才不怕你 hence I won't back down so easily.

I feel that psychologically-weak people shouldn't get into quarrels. Not to be confused with cowards as cowards don't even dare to get into a fight. The psychologically-weak get into quarrels but mentally disintegrate with every verbal battle. Post-quarrel, they'd get all emo and sometimes break down and cry. If you can't take it, don't fight! Just admit defeat.

Speaking of cowards, people who gossip but don't dare to admit their involvement ARE definitely cowards. I think girls are braver than guys in this aspect. I have seen guys who actively badmouth someone but when confronted, shrink like pansies and blatantly deny saying anything -"I didn't gossip! She said it. I only listened!"
If I said it, yup I did SO? First of all, 无风不起浪 (not sure if this is right) so there must be some truth to scandals swirling around. Secondly, there must be a good reason why I took the time and effort to bitch about you! Third, remember to confront the 50-odd others who are gossiping too. 
Anyway, no guts then don't partake in bitching sessions. You'll have people bitching about YOU and YOUR cowardice. Especially guys. 懦弱at home, not in public.

Am I very bold? I don't think I am. I just tend to speak very brashly at the wrong times, am overly critical and sarcastic. *shrugs*