Before I left for Spain, I saw Xiaxue's tweet @ ZR but back then, was too excited about the trip to care. Was still thinking ZR is some eurasian or like, daughter of someone rich/famous.
Was only recently when Jars filled me in and got me to read the whole saga from the fb page. I googled them and found the hwz forum. Seriously. The language there is really unique (haha). Finally finished reading all the comments, all 178 pages of them. I know, I'm also damn boliao!
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I used to think that guys who weren't good looking, won't cheat. SERIOUS. I was THAT naive. Whenever I heard people telling me that so-and-so (who doesn't do very well in the looks dept) was a flirt or two-timing, I would LOL and be like, NO WAY! Can't be! Don't you need certain 条件 to be a player?
We used to laugh at guys (who look completely nerdy) boasting at the number of girls they could get.
I just couldn't understand why girls would be willing to fight over a guy who isn't at least goodlooking? IKR, so superficial (sigh). Personally, if a guy knows that there are girls competing for his affections, his ego will swell. Possibly explode. Why would you want to encourage that? Tsktsk. Unless, you really really are in love with him? Honestly, I think some girls might confuse love with the butterflies you get when you start liking someone initially. Love is so much more.
I haven't exactly loved anyone yet so I don't know what that feels like. Sometimes I'll think I must love so-and-so very very much!!! BUT, it's probably not true. It's probably mutated butterflies or some crazy obsession.
When I found out my crush was attached, I was sad. I thought I would cry my eyes out. I thought I would lose my appetite (and slim down!!! yes!). I thought I would be emo.
But the next moment, time for dinner. And nope, it didn't last till the next day. No bouts of emoness. Which meant I was not as in love as I thought! *shocking!!*
Well, if you're not goodlooking, you must believe that God is fair. He will give you lots of money perhaps? Intelligence? A good heart?
Unfortunately, the third point is hardly worth anything in today's society. Most people will tell you what good is a good heart when people judge you superficially first before bothering to get to know you.
No?
Some of my guy friends used to say that Singaporean girls are so superficial and materialistic. Some of them called me those 2 things. SERIOUSLY.
Okay, I do admit I am partially superficial but some of the guys I found goodlooking, my friends were like YA in another universe maybe? So, I am not THAT superficial.
Materialistic? Why would anyone think that? I don't tote branded bags around. I don't scoff at non-branded things. I don't ask for expensive gifts. Where got materialistic??? If I'm materialistic, then 8 out of 10 girls are as well. The only thing I said was that I prefer not to go to food court/hawker centre when out on dates.
*exasperated*
HELLO? You mean you can't even afford a restaurant/cafe on the first few dates? Very ex meh? That ex, I can pay for myself. It's not like we meet every single day for all 3 meals.
Back to what I was saying, they said malaysian girls are better. I was pretty offended. And THAT GUY. Hmpfh. It's not like his reputation was very good. He's exactly the sort that girls were saying Don't Date because not only is he miserly, he's only haolian. What's worse? Got gf still make out with another girl IN PUBLIC.
Really bhb.
Anyway, guys who are attached, should stay attached. Be faithful to your gf!! If your relationship fails (choy! but just saying), it should be because of your differences and not because of any third party.
I don't think it's right to be in a relationship but at the same time, still fishing for prospective bf/gf. It's just... why be in a relationship in the first place then?
Some guys still go out (actively) with other girls when they're attached. The gf trusts them so much? The gf super confident that she's the chioest in the world? Even if you're the chioest, a guy can still cheat on you with someone less chio. 真的.
If I'm the gf, I would be damn jealous. Why? Because even after marriage, you don't control a person's heart. And frequent interactions with another girl, especially if the girl is THOSE KIND, is an ingredient for disaster.
Some girls are just flirtatious by nature. See guy, will flirt. Goodlooking or not, never QC. No need QC. Friends' bf also can flirt. I've seen before. If it's someone close to me, I will 讲她. It's really not right!
And... why must you go out with other girls when you have a gf? Group outings, fine. One on one? That close? Never know when something happens. Then the gf so poor thing.
Otoh, if you're the close female friend who is eyeing the attached guy, you'll feel freaking proud of yourself for being able to lure the guy away from his gf right? I don't know but you will feel secretly triumphant that you can steal him away from the gf. There must be something better about you compared to the gf? Especially if you DON't think they should be together?
Not that I've done that. I'll keep my distance with attached guys.
Don't think it's right to be overly friendly with them. Some guys really abit buay zi dong.
Generally, I'm uncomfortable (and awkward) when a guy I have no interest in, attempts to chase me. Some girls might find it very flattering and not bad what, got gifts and treats for free.
But no, I prefer to get even further from such guys.
There was this guy who told me if I said there's a chance between us, he would reject the girl who confessed to him.
*shocked*
Immediately copy and paste to all my friends :D
Funny right? He's like trying to secure at least one girl for himself. The one he wants, try to get. The one who wants him, aiya mai hiam buay pai so just kiv.
This kind... At least they are still together.
Anyway, hwz posters ji hardworking. Saw pictures of Z. I think they purposely posted the not very flattering ones. Her show8teethperfectsmile look reminds me of another girl. Let's call her Y. Obvious or not, I don't really care since I hate her.
Ya really, this one is hate. Not just dislike. Sometimes I think maybe I didn't get the big picture so I misunderstood her but then, whatever, I choose to continue hating her.
Ya hating someone saps the soul blahblahblah *haha* It's a back-of-my-mind hatred. I don't actively go to her fb and mock her pictures or write nasty things about her. Don't even remember her unless slut behaviors remind me of her existence.
Y acted all cool in class. Got to know that she was attached and people quoted her as saying her bf doesn't like her to be with guys alone (obviously, which bf likes that?) so she must respect his decision. Act faithful only! Behind his back, she was chasing another guy. OMG so 丢脸 can? The guy himself told me she was the one who initiated. And chased for quite long somemore. Really pull out all the stops that kind. Of course la, got more money, got car, why not right?
And best thing was, he didn't want her to waste her effort so he agreed. She dumped her bf then.
When I heard it, I was silent. SERIOUSLY. Got effort can already. Effort at doing what? Pui.
Well, must be her effort not enough cos' the relationship didn't last that long. HAHAHA :D
At the end of the day, she is still a slut who deserves no respect. Attached le still go ahead and seduce guys. Please la. At least Z got some assets. This one...
People still ask me why I dislike her. She can do something so jian, of course I'll dislike her. This kind of 烂条件 still string bf along while outside flirting. Ewwww.
Really glad none of my closest friends and cousins are like that. No one is doing those expose cleavage, sleep around, flirt with guys stunts.
Good.
If have, I will lol first before being shocked. And after being shocked, I will lol somemore at the sheer ridiculous(ness) of it.
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