If a guy has no redeeming qualities, he should at least have money.
I'm putting money ahead of looks but this is of course, subjective.
(For ladies, I'd say looks.)
Whenever I see a not very good-looking guy attached and the gf doesn't look that bad, my first thought is "he must be rich!"
(It's much easier finding chio girls than good-looking guys. This is partly due to the make-up effect. Guys can't really put on make up to accentuate their features, can they? So there's only plastic surgery.)
Well. That's just how I see it. Of course not every one is superficial like me. But humans are visual creatures and to me, looks are #1. After we get past #1, I'll look at the rest. If you don't even get past the looks test, nothing you say actually registers with me. I'll be thinking of how to get away without being rude.
(I'm a really nice person. Like what I've told countless people, I'm nice even to the super annoying buggers trying to sell me stuff.)
At times, I really think how a person can live looking like that. Don't they look in the mirror? Don't they shop? Don't they comb their hair? What is with the "I accept my looks" nonsense? Acceptance is an excuse for being LAZY.
I am extremely judgemental - how a person talks, grammar proficiency, dressing, voice, looks, character, etc.
I've always had an issue with people who can't even get their basic grammar right. And there are those fools who make up words. Not to mention the losers who can't spell for nuts. Did you not attend primary school?
Men who like younger girls a little too much? It doesn't make you look younger. You just look like you're trying TOO hard. There's an age and time for everything. You are way past due. In job-speak, you sir, are impaired.
Back to the topic, we should all be on the same frequency here. Unless you're rich or happen to have a merc/bm/otherflashycar, otherwise don't even bother.
Ling said that we can have requirements and all but when you fall for someone, you would discount all those requirements.
Well, I would fall for someone only after he has fulfilled all my requirements.
I say this a lot and I'll say it again. If you're going to be ashamed, don't do it.
If you're going to be ashamed when someone says "oh! so that's your bf?" and feel like no one should know about your relationship, then Don't Do It!
Perhaps it's true then what people always say about me.
"Your standards are too high!"
Personally, I think my standards are normal. My minimum requirements:
NO VICES
Pleasant-looking (according to me)
Taller
MUST NOT be skinnier but not so buff till armscannotclose-type
More intelligent
Effectively bilingual + does not have spelling and grammar issues + must not make up words
Reasonable income (if not, how to afford condo or go for holidays?)
Dresses appropriately
Has a driving license
Musically-inclined + can sing.
Must like animals!
How is that high? Don't most girls want these things?
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