Wise words indeed

I suppose J has many more pearls of wisdom but this is the wisest thing I've heard from him (well, from a third party but...)
You'll feel the need to be in a relationship once you're working.
Reason being it makes a bad day so much better knowing there's someone to talk to, to give a hug etc. Not just bad days I suppose. Makes a good day even better having someone share your joy, gossip etc.
I never feel this more strongly than when I'm in a fucked up situation. My mum never fails to make me more dulan when she attempts to comfort me. My brother is all "suck it up, life isn't all about you".
I know it isn't all about me. That isn't the main point. So what if life is unfair? Do we not feel depressed or angry? Obviously we still get upset even if it might seem inevitable!

I'm miffed that people don't seem to understand my job. They can ask every time we meet and come no closer to an understanding. It's hilarious in an annoying way. It makes me reluctant to talk about my work since you have no idea what is going on.
That said, it would be nice to just have someone listen while I bitch and curse. Comments are optional. The "haha"s can be done away with, thanks. It really isn't a joke.

Thus, it feels like I can only bitch to other auditors since our lives are largely the same. We all have our own sob stories and can relate.
Sad. Outside of work, your confidantes are still your colleagues. There's no getting away from work, is there?

Well anyway, it's only day 2 and I'm straddling worry and manic depression. Guess that means I'll have less time to think about other things. Work, work and work. That should be my concern instead of the whole helikesmehelikesmenot debacle. Let's discount your expert opinion.